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99-Year-Old Man Who Walks 6 Miles Each Day to Visit His Wife in Hospital Is an Inspiration to Us All 99-Year-Old Man Who Walks 6 Miles Each Day to Visit His Wife in Hospital Is an Inspiration to Us All

Luther Younger, a 99-year-old man from Rochester, N.Y., walks six miles roundtrip per day to see his ailing wife, Waverlee, at the hospital she is being treated in, CBS News reports.

Return of the Mack: How Does Momo Get Her Groove Back? Return of the Mack: How Does Momo Get Her Groove Back?

Previously on The Root After Dark, I told you about my ill-fated dalliance with a man I dubbed “Mr. Big.” It started off beautifully, trended toward being something good, then crashed and burned at the end.

The VSB Group Chat: Insecure Season 3, Episode 1, 'Better-Like' Recap The VSB Group Chat: Insecure Season 3, Episode 1, 'Better-Like' Recap

Has there ever been a show that ignites as many discussions on your timeline as Insecure? Thanks to Issa Rae and team, Insecure has given many the platform they’ve been looking for, where they finally have their Facebook status post lighting up with engagement.

Black Marriage, Explained, in 20 Questions About Pie Black Marriage, Explained, in 20 Questions About Pie

(Sidenote: I will neither confirm nor deny that these pie-related questions were asked in my house in a 24-hour span.)

Are You Seeking Perfection or Just a Good Fit? Are You Seeking Perfection or Just a Good Fit?

In the dating world, we all start out with some idea of what we want and are looking for in a prospective partner or love interest. As we meet people who we think have potential, we tally up and score them based on our set of criteria.

The All-American Question: Can You Truly Love Black People if You Date Outside the Race? The All-American Question: Can You Truly Love Black People if You Date Outside the Race?

Whether it is about a same-sex, interracial or nonconforming relationship, as a rule, I tend not to involve myself in the question of whom other people choose to love, and it’s not because I have a self-righteous sense of egalitarian, progressive thinking. It’s mostly because I have one universal rule for other…

Black Life, White Wife and the Art Caught in the Middle Black Life, White Wife and the Art Caught in the Middle

Over the weekend, Donald Glover, aka Childish Gambino, dropped a video for a new song called “This Is America.” You are reading this, which means there’s a better than 90 percent chance that you’ve both seen the video and had a discussion about it already. Probably several.

The 1st Date Was Successful. Now What?  The 1st Date Was Successful. Now What? 

Dating in the age of Twitter should really come with a manual or a rulebook or at least some guidelines for what happens after you successfully complete the first date and decide that you want to continue seeing the person.

Survivor’s Remorse: On Junot Díaz and the Collateral Damage of Trauma Survivor’s Remorse: On Junot Díaz and the Collateral Damage of Trauma

I began this week in tears. Early Monday morning, hot, torrential tears were flowing as if I were in the midst of my last heartbreak—or the one before that, or the one before that. I was reading Junot Díaz’s searingly confessional essay in the New Yorker about confronting and coping with his childhood rape. Like many…

When He Talks That Talk and Walks That Walk When He Talks That Talk and Walks That Walk

Editor’s note: This is part 4 of a multipart series. Catch up with part 1 , part 2 and part 3.

It’s the Little Things It’s the Little Things

Editor’s note: This is part 3 of a multipart series. Catch up with part 1 and part 2.

Cheating: Who, What, Why and How to Recover Cheating: Who, What, Why and How to Recover

Cheating. Infidelity. Adultery. “Playing” on your girlfriend. “Creeping” on your man. Home-wrecking.

Is Flirting a Form of Cheating? Is Flirting a Form of Cheating?

I am an incurable flirt. It is a big part of my personality, and it is something that often happens without me being conscious of it.

Incidents in the Life of a Serial Nonmonogamist  Incidents in the Life of a Serial Nonmonogamist 

I wasn’t planning on meeting anyone, and I wasn’t planning on liking him.

Don’t ‘Fix’ My Problem. Acknowledge That It Exists Don’t ‘Fix’ My Problem. Acknowledge That It Exists

I’m in a real, grown-up relationship. We’re engaged, but it already involves kids, a mortgage, car payments, bills, blended families, vacations and real-life decisions. It also involves fun, but it’s less of the boozy-brunch variety and more of the adult-with-kid fun that occurs when you hang with the other homies…

Why I Hate Referring to Anybody in My Family as ‘Step’ Anything Why I Hate Referring to Anybody in My Family as ‘Step’ Anything

For roughly the past six months, I’ve had the opportunity to talk and write about my family in a way that is more substantive than I have in all my years of writing; most discussions were spurred from the article about how politics had created a rift between my (white) mother and me.

Sex Is Not a Gift, and Other Things You Need to Know About Valentine’s Day Sex Is Not a Gift, and Other Things You Need to Know About Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is Wednesday, and everyone is gearing up to show the one they love how special they are. I’ve seen conversations all across social media about what people will be giving their significant others, and I thought that now is as good a time as any to clear up a few misconceptions people may have about this…

#RelationshipGoals and the Unrealistic Expectation of Picture-Perfectness #RelationshipGoals and the Unrealistic Expectation of Picture-Perfectness

When you consider being in a relationship with someone and you think of the expectations you have for that relationship, what do you base them on? Do you look to other couples whom you admire for inspiration or are your expectations grounded in what you know about your potential partner?

Who Gets the Friends in the Breakup? Who Gets the Friends in the Breakup?

Recently, a couple I have known for a long time split up—much to the surprise and disappointment of everyone around them. They were the kind of couple that threw amazing dinner and cocktail parties, who were the picture of love and affection everywhere they went, and generally made you feel good whenever you were…

Building Good Relationships Means Creating Real Intimacy Building Good Relationships Means Creating Real Intimacy

Connected. If I had to describe what intimacy means in one word, that would be the word. Connected. You being in tune with your partner and your partner being in tune with you. Puzzle pieces that fit together the way they are meant to, working together to make a beautiful thing.

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